The title, either in German or English, doesn’t quite fit and the overall sensation of this film by new director Chris Miera is that it is indeed a long way. The idea is a nice one – tracing the relationship of a gay couple from first romance to break up over a period of 17 years with the film basically organized into 4 chapters. One has a son and the boy becomes part of their family in picturesque Thuringia for a long time. Most of the rest of the film revolves around difficult economic and work moments and health issues.
So, what went wrong? Firstly, it needs a serious chop. There are countless long scenes of close ups of worried or blubbering faces, long pans of a distant figure walking on the beach, all of which have the audience begging them to get on with it.
Secondly, the bad moments take precedence over the good, which are pretty sombre as well. Some lightness in all the gloom is clearly needed. As a consequence of that, although we understand much of the character of the two men and they are not bad people, they are not very likeable either so when you have protagonists you don’t care about, the film gets harder to follow. There was also a notable absence of secondary characters or support. When most humans go through bad times, friends rally round especially if the problem is a fight within the couple. No wonder one of them had a nervous breakdown here as he had no one to turn to.
So, despite the good intentions here, this could have been a totally different film with the same gravity but much easier to enjoy and ride along with. A pity. Mike Hoffmann and Mathis Reinhardt do what they can with a camera up their nose for much of the shoot.
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